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After taking short break from 7 1/2 year cycle series, Im here again to complete the final learning curve that I had for almost 8 years and how things have changed my life .

Not everything the astrology prediction is true or turn out to be true, some did like my exam result and so on. We didn’t run away from house neither hanging on the phone for hours. Astrology prediction can be used as guideline but not everything. He even predicted that my studies will be halt half way and so on however I did complete my Prof.Diploma and furthered upto my Masters successfully. We left the house for work purpose by staying at S’pore being closer to the School and HP office . Though Im unable to deny if my SPM result is otherwise perhaps I wouldn’t have had the burning fire in me to pursue my studies. Missing a mere of  ‘1′point could change and twist the fate of your life.

I learned alot about people, knowing and understanding their tricks, invalued moral attitudes, care-less for human folks and very self oriented. Very rare to find for someone whom really shows true cares,loving and willingness to help. E.g Mr.Ananth from fwc whom helped me to get to S’pore Immigration. It is good to learn everything at young age instead of older age,it prepares you for the golden age and always have a "BEWARE" instinct deep in you. From everything that happened to my family, taught me how to be independent and lead your life ahead strongly. Suffering from hunger helped me alot on controlling my 5 senses swiftly, thus I learn to appreciate food more than before and Im very much aware of what I am eating. Im grown now that I don’t take things for granted or easy, appreciate every small little helps that comes into my life and care extremely for my loved ones. Although I can’t deny people tend to make use of the care and love we show by making use of our weakness. I take my job very seriously because once upon a time it is my job that fed my family when both my parents was retrenched and we’re in helpless moment. Although money is not everything it is essential for our life, cruciality still goes back to our roots, our upbringing,attitudes and morality.

Though my ambition to be Forensic Pathologis never get fulfilled even till today, Im happy that Im still a "forensic pathologist" for IT systems, same type of work needs to be done. If I need to read human atlas, here I need to read the OS guide, if I need to slit the body flesh, here I need to open config files and manipulate it… so still at the end Im doing the same job !! Not on human but on gigantic machines !!

I learned that by making our own parents happy, we gain much, we have their sincere blessings and they are the best of friends that one can have. There is a saying there is a women behind all Men’s success, the saying applies intricately on me as well, My mom is my strong backbone behind every our success, without her guidance, choice or even blessings I wouldn’t have easily meted out all the challenges and thorns that happen in my life. She set a very deep example in my life, for some whom have known what happened previously would feel the same way as well. Her bitter moments in life have seeded us courageously and continously pushed us up. My dad’s ever unceasing love and prayers for us helped us to stand still among the rough sea.

Patience is virtue, not a simple sentence but very meaningful. The mental torchures that I went through for almost 5 years taught me to be patient & forgive. However there is a limit of what can be digested and tolerated.

Those people who gave me some hard time at school , appreciated me being one of the youngest staff in schools and kept our friendship growing till today. At SJC, I met up with warm friend of mine Sandy, we worked together and our relationship grows from mere collegueship to best friendships. Although I know her for about 1.5 years, but our friendship blooms till today. I found there are many similiarity between both of us in term of thoughts and ideas. Being a elder person, she guided me very well and even offered to take telco line under her name. That is one of the biggest help she has done, else it will be difficult to survive with prepaid. Those days prepaid in singapore deducts both way.

Let me cut long story short, it is a tremendous deep learning curve that has moulded into what I am today. Whenever the memory comes, I Thank the GOD and my dearest ones for being with me and showing the right path. Once for all, I have started to lead a balance life and enjoy every moments as much as I can. Rough seas are not there always and it aint easy as well, take one at time and our journey will be smooth…